here am i..writing in the ol' blog. i know my blog is kinda..dull and lifeless..but heck,i still want to post something eventhough i know nobody would read it.hehe.i have the intentions to write,but whenever i wanted to write something,the idea just flew away in the air.so i end up staring at the blog for half an hour,staring at the first word that i typed; hi,hello or assalamualaikum.haha.
so theres a thing that i want to rant about. rant or not rant...
RANT.
Okay like this,a friend of mine,who just got dumped,told me that she has a 'thing' to her 5years bestfriend.i don't know if this a common problem when having a guy as a bestfriend or not.and she doesn't know how to confess to him.yelah dah kawan baik kau.kalau confess i'm sure it'll be like awkward and all. and if the guys likes you back takpelah jugak,but what if he doesn't? then she'll be acting weird and the guy also mesti macam jauhkan diri,or if he loves the friendship,he'll try his best to act like it never happened.i don't know maybe because the guy helps her get through the breakup thingy sampai that girl wants to have a relationship with him.yelah maybe that girl is still in mourning state.so i think she wants a rebound relationship.rebound relationship for me theres pros and cons.but cons lagi banyak dari pros.okay, pros: you get distracted and forget the breakup pain.for someone who fear of being alone,a rebound is a good idea to get some company,apart from friends and family.anddd....yeah i got nothing pros anymore,hahah. so the cons: it happens too fast,i mean,you don't even know the deets of this boy.so have to be careful on that.it also can hurt the reboundees (ada ke?).rebounder have the tendancy to hurt the feelings because of his or her past.also if the reboundees are try to find the right calon isteri/suami in rebound partner,forget it. i can assure you,most of them aren't your wife or husband type.okay banyak lagi benda boleh dijadikan cons.but for now,i advised my friend,to just stay friends with the bestfriend.better safe than sorry.dia pun still in college.you don't know what Allah has planned for you.you just pray for your best in life and hereafter.when the time comes,it'll come.faster than you know it. :) so don't get too stressed because kena dump ke apa. enjoy your life and anggap korang takde jodoh.and remember,that if Allah take away something from you,have faith that He'll be giving something better to you.kena sabar dan banyak berdoa.:)
i know this post got nothing to do with me,but what the heck,i just want to talk about it.:D
